婚姻、爱与自由（2）

    marriage, love and freedom

    anonymous

    you are asking, “is it possible to be married and to be free?”

    if you take marriage non-seriously, then you can be free. if you take it seriously, then freedom is impossible. take marriage just as a game—it is a game. have a little sense of humor, that it is a role you are playing on the stage of life; but it is not something that belongs to existence or has any reality—it is a fiction.

    but people are so stupid that they even start taking fiction for reality. i have seen people reading fiction s are going so tragically. it is a very good device in the movies that they put the lights off, so everybody can enjoy the movie, laugh, cry, be sad, be happy. if there ht it et it completely.

    and the same has happened s ins our problem.

    in the first place, et married? you love someone, live hts. you can live e is not something that happens in heaven, it happens here, through the crafty priests. but if you ame e is just a game:“never take it seriously. i e, and you e. neither i am going to interfere in your life, nor are you going to interfere in my life; ether, sharing our joys, sharing our freedom—but not becoming a burden on each other. and any moment  has passed, the honeymoon is over, h not to go on pretending, but to say to each other that rateful to each other forever, and the days of love olden—but the spring is over. our paths have come to a point, h it is sad,  together is not a sign of love. if i love you, i  an imprisonment for me.”

    love is the highest value in life: it should not be reduced to stupid rituals. and love and freedom go together—you cannot choose one and leave the other. a man  to give freedom. if you cannot give freedom to the person you love, to ive freedom? giving freedom is nothing but trusting. freedom is an expression of love.

    so es are fake—just social conveniences. their purpose is not to imprison you and bind you to each other; their purpose is to help you to grorootten that  in the sun, in the sky, and it looks so beautiful. attracted by its beauty, you can catch the bird and put it in a golden cage.

    do you think it is the same bird? superficially, yes, it is the same bird  in the sky; but deep doolden cage may be valuable to you; it is not valuable to the bird. for the bird, to be free in the sky is the only valuable thing in life. and the same is true about human beings.</p>

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